Book Review : John C. Maxwell " Everyone Communicates Few Connect ". What the Most Effective People Do Differently"

Book Review : John C. Maxwell " Everyone Communicates Few Connect ".  What the Most Effective People Do Differently"

I want to recommend you an interesting book that will help you discover yourself, but also connect with yourself and those around you.

When I started reading this book, I understood one thing. First of all you have to have a connection with yourself then you have to have a connection with God, and last but not least you have to have a connection with those around you. But that's what I'll talk about at the end.

The first connection is to know yourself, to know your dreams, to respect yourself, to love yourself, to let your dreams come true. Forgive yourself, be better with yourself.

You need to know yourself and see what you like. Listen to the soul and the heart, more precisely the intuition.

A second connection is the connection with God. It is the most important relationship in your life. He is our creator, he protects us, loves us and accepts us as we are. He is everything, he gives us everything, life, health and death. One day he will judge us by our deeds.

  And finally there is the connection with those around us, family, friends, co-workers and large groups of people. Here I will talk in more detail. It's something to talk about. It is a book that you can discover yourself and others around us.

It made me understand better than to connect with others you have to learn to connect with yourself.

If you want to be successful, you need to learn how to really communicate with others.

What’s secret? Connecting! If you want to succeed, you must learn how to connect with others. Connecting is key. If you want to have an advantage in working with people, you need to learn  to connect!

 I am convinced that I can help you to learn to connect with people. The book will teach you the 5 principles  that are functional for understanding  how to connect  with people. And the second part, you will learn five practices  that anyone  can do to connect with others regardless of age,  experience or natural ability. Learning to connect with the people can change your life.

If you want to be effective in any  area of life, connecting with people, you can learn to become even better at it. And if you haven’t previously  tried with others, you will  be astounded by how it can change your life.

Important to start with your attitude. The ability to connect with others begins with understanding  the value of people.

I needed more than courage to change things –I needed connecting skills. No matter what your goals are, connecting can help you.

Connecting  with others may not be a matter of life  or death for most of us,  but it often is a matter of success or failure. I think the further along in life  we get, the more aware we become of the importance of connecting with the others. People are eager to connect with others, and most  will  do anything they can to feel connected.

If you want to have an advantage in working with the people, you need to learn to connect.

There is first steps to help you to learn the principles behind connecting  with others:

By focusing on others;

Expanding your connecting vocabulary just words;

Marshalling your energy for connecting;

Gaining insight in how great connectors connect;

Then You will help you acquire the practical skills of connection:

 Finding common ground

Making your communication simple;

Capturing people’s interest

Inspiring them, and being authentic.

These are things anyone can learn to do.

Connecting is the ability to identify with the people and relate to them  in a way that increase your influence with them. The number one criteria  for advancement and promotion  for professionals is an ability to communicate effectively.

If you concentrated  on two areas: learning to write  and to speak before  an audience. Nothing in life is more important than the ability to communicate  effectively. Talent isn’t enough. Experience  isn’t enough  to lead others, you must to be able to communicate  well,  and connecting is key.

Of course, connecting isn’t just for leaders. It is for anyone who desires to be more effective at what he or she does or enjoy better relationship. When you connected with others, you positions yourself to make most of your skills and talents.

God grant us the serenity to accept the things we can not  change, courage to change the things we can,  and wisdom  to know the difference. There were things I could change but didn’t know how to change. To communicate effectively and to lead others, you have  to take initiative. You have to be proactive.

This is someone who understands success . I like him. But there’s more to it than that he really understands me. He knows what I believe. Understands what I’m thinking. He knows what I feel. He can help me. I would love to be his friend. I already feel like  he’s my friend. I was  trying to go ahead  by correcting others when I should  have been trying to connect with others.

Connecting is never about me. It’s about the person with whom  I’m communicating. You are trying to connect with the people, it’s not about you, it’s about them. Maturity is the ability  to see and act on behalf of others. Immature people don’t see things from  someone else point of view.  They  rarely concern  themselves  with what’s best for others. In  many  ways, they act like small children. We recognize  that part of the parenting process is helping children understand  that they are not the center of the universe .

I can tell a lot of about this book, but I prefer to leave you to discover this interesting book which I recommended  for you to read it. You will find things which you will learn to connect with people and with yourself.

Now, I want to tell you my conclusion about this book, what can you do with the talent you have ? Whatever is in you can be put  to better use  if you learn to connect  with the people. You can learn  to increase your influence in every  situation  because  connecting  is more skill  than  natural talent. And you can learn  to do it. So start to taking steps. Embrace the connecting  principles. Start using the connecting  practices. And do something  positive in your corner of the world.

World renowned leadership expert and bestselling author John. C. Maxwell says if you want to be an effective leader, you must to learn how to connect with the people. While it may seem like some folks are just born with a commanding presence that draws people in the fact is anyone can learn to communicate  in ways  that consistently build powerful connections. Everyone Communicates, Few Connect, helps you succeed by revealing Maxwell’s Five Principles and Five Practices to develop this  crucial skill of connecting, including: finding  common ground, keeping your communication simple, capturing people’s interest, inspiring people, and staying authentic in all your relationships. Your ability to achieve results in any organization be it a company, church, nonprofit, or even in your family is directly tied to the leadership skills in your toolbox. Connecting is an easy to learn  skill you can apply today in your personal, and family to start living your best life.